In the interest of time, I am going to just cut right to the chase.
I think you are great. You have the biggest hearts. I admire your strength and the passion behind your convictions to make the world a better and more equal place, but we've grown apart and I think it's best we go our separate ways.
As hard as it is for me to say this to you, I think it's important that I'm completely honest about our break up, which is why I have to tell you that this is not because of me.
It's because of you.
I think in spending some time alone, you can get in touch with yourself and that it would be very healing for you. A little introspection and personal growth never hurt anybody, after all.
You’ve changed a lot over the past few years and I realized how inconsistent and controlling you were. You're kind of a bully and I decided that I did not deserve to put up with your toxic negativity and abuse that masquerades as love.
What I see is a superiority complex and it’s mean, yet you pride yourself as being a vision of One Love, but there is NO love in liberalism unless we bow down to your version of love.
Do you mean One Love that includes only people who agree with your vision? Or do you mean One Love, as truly accepting and loving all people, even if they personally do not share the same perspective of you?
There's no love for anyone whose vision you can't see.
Your vision of unity forces conformity to your expectations and is a form of love that is completely intolerant of any different ideas.
Your judgement of one's character should not convict them of who they are. Who gave you the authority as character judge anyway? You yourself are not God and you are guilty of sin.
You stole the message from Love himself, the Christ in the Bible and then you banished him from the platform.
It's dark and it's kind of messed up.
It is the quintessence of the battle of Good vs. Evil, after all, this type of situation was forewarned.
You stole the message of love and started assigning conditions to a logic that was unconditionally perfect in form.
Conditional Love is actually a form of Control.
This is why, we have to break up.
You've been hypocritical and demanding with every stance you take and I got tired of navigating the confusion.
Black Lives Matter, but if you say All Lives Matter you are muting the message. If you say nothing, that’s not okay either...we're damned if we do and we're damned if don't.
We HAVE to conform.
Put your mask on. Now, all lives matter. Except yours, because you’re a selfish jerk for not wearing your mask..(do I have that straight?).
We don’t have the right to tell a woman what to do with her body, she gets a choice. But you don’t get a choice about your body and wearing a mask....because it’s different. When you don’t wear a mask, it affects other people's bodies. But we should fund the choice intervention because some people chose to not wrap it up in the act.
It makes no sense. The foundation of your logic is inconsistent.
I wish you would just come right out and admit that the lives of those who disagree with you don't matter, because the deductive reasoning of your argument arrives at that.
So, it's over. Things are never going to work out between us, we must part ways.
You are self-righteous and you are bullies who think you can tell the whole world what equal rights means, all while stripping an entire population of their own rights.
Your censorship is not freedom.
Your judgement is not justice.
Your conditions are not love.
Your equality is not righteous.
You are perpetuating the very cycle of exclusion that you are supposedly fighting to stop and it is driving the force behind the divide. I wish you could see that.
I do not disagree with your mission. I do not disagree that we need to fight for social justice and equal rights, but I completely disagree with how you think we're supposed to achieve this.
You are not spreading love when you bully people or project anger. You are not spreading love when you try to tell someone what they are or how they feel.
There is no hate in this message, but it will be said that there is by those who can't face the truth.
You, yourself are erecting a barrier that reinforces division and yet you cry foul when anyone else puts up a wall.
MY life matters.
Your life matters.
His life matters.
Her life matters.
Everyone's life matters.
If we want to heal the divide, we have to break up, because I think you need a lesson in Love.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
I hope you figure out what real love is.
Until we meet again on the other side of the divide,